Mee age 30’s loki rakamunde meru telusukovalsina vishayalu
- Being compassionate- Office lo kavochu, intlo kavochu kondaru chese panulu manaki nachavu, alantappudu manam inkonchem opikaga undi enduku vallu ala behave chesi untaru ani edutivari point of view lo alochinchali, manam andaram different habits tho perigina valam andaru okelaga alochinchamu, andariki same thinking capacity undadhu anduke okaru chese pani inkokariki nachadhu, evaraina sare tappu chesinatlu anipisthe kastha opikaga em jarigindo telusukodaniki prayatninchandi oohaganalaku povadhu, velaithe maata sayam cheyandi, edutivaru chepeddi poorthiga vinandi, konni sarlu manam etuvanti salaha ivvakapoyina varu cheppedi manam vinte ade variki relief ga untundi.
Keep Learning- Niranthara vidyardhi ga undali, chala mandi adavaru pelli ayyaka, kontha mandi magavaru manchi job lo settle ayyaka kotha vishayalu telusukovadam manestharu, adi tappu, nenu cheppedi career paramga nerchukondi ani kaadhu, mee manasuki haiga anipinchedi edaina sare ante oka manchi book chadavadam kavochu, kotha vantalu, mee passion & skill ni develop chesedi edaina sare, dani kosam kontha samayam ketayinchi mee life lo prathi roju kotha vishayalani telusukuntu undandi.
Eg : meru English matladatam nerchukovali anukunte roju oka kotha padam chusi adi ela sentence form lo use cheyali ani telusukondi, konni rojulaki meku chala kotha padalu telisi untayi.
Don’t care/bother what others think about you- Mana life lo manaki chala important persons kondaru untaru, meru em chesina ela unna varu accept chestharu, inkondaru mee gurinchi poorthiga telusukokunda mimalni judge chesthu mee gurinchi edo okati matladuthu untaru alanti valani asalu patinchukonavasaram ledu, meru entha manchiga unna pointout cheyadaniki variki edo oka vishayam dorukuthundi, alanti variki meru ey vidamaina explanation ichina accept cheyaleru, aa vyakthi mimalni sarriga ardam chesukoledu anna vishayanni meru accept chesi mee aim/goal ni reach avvadaniki mee prayatnam meru cheyandi, mana manasuki daggaraina family members & friends untaru variki matram mee life lo importance tagganivvakandi.
Take care of your body- mana poorvikula aharapu alavatlu kaani, variki unna physical activities kaani manaki levu, rojulo 10hrs chair lo kurchuni chese panike pothundi, ala kakunda meru day lo oka 20mins to 1hr walking , yoga, jumba dance lantivi evaina cheyandi, e covid situation lo breathing exercises cheyadam compulsory.
Investment- meru ammai kavochu, abbai aina kavochu, evaraina sare finance gurinchi telusukondi, loans ekkada tesukunnaru, emergency fund ekkada undhi, elanti investments cheyali anedi mee partner tho discuss cheyandi, savings anevi chala important.
Travel- Year ki 1trip, financial ga stable ga lemu ante 2yrs ki aina oka trip velandi, pradesalu maaruthu unte kotha anubavam vasthundi, alage refresh avtharu.
Cherish the present- Past lo chesina tappula nundi nerchukondi, kani past lo undipokandi, tappu cheyadam kante past gurinchi alochisthu present lo jaruguthunnadi gurthinchalekapovadam tappu, past gurinchina alochana mimalni vennaki nettesthundi, kabatti present ni enjoy cheyandi.
Time& energy- mee time anedi chala precious danini anavasara vishayalakosam waste cheyodhu, meeku nachina environment create chesukuni, mee manasuki nachina manushulatho time spend cheyandi, urike formalities ki pooyi istam leni place lo gantalu gantalu undodhu.
Don’t compare yourself with others - Chinnapudu mee parents, relatives, neighbour’s, teachers andaru mimalni evaro okaritho compare chese untaru, inka chaalu mimalni meru evarithonu compare chesukovadhu, mee friend ki mee kante ekkuva salary vasthuna, meku inka pelli kakapoyina, pelli ayyi kids lekapoyina, job lekpaoyina, own house lekapoyina edaina sare meekantu oka time vasthundi, wait till then “Bhoomi mida same age unna prathi vaaru okesari putti okesari chanipovatam ledu, mari vala life lo jarige incidents kuda okesari avvali ane rule ledu kada”. Manaku jariginde manchi, twaraga jariginda late ga jariginda ani manam timeframe set chesukokudadhu, eppudu jarigithe appude correct time.
Stop trying to impress others- yes prathisari evarino impress cheyali, andaru nannu manchi anukovali ani “ne reality” ni nuvvu marchipovadhu, ninnu istapadevaru nuv ela unna netho untaru, nuvvu chese panilo neku support ga untaru, impress chese panilo padi asalu mee aim/goal enti anedi meru poorthiga marchipovadhu jagratha.
Final words:Inner peace/peace of mind is most important, learn from your seniors(brothers, sisters, cousins, friends) take your parents suggestion/advice in decision making, dont keep grudges, don’t self blame(of course we are humans we do mistakes).
Happy 30’s.
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